I have about had it up to here (and thats not 2 far of 5ft cuz I'm a petite woman), with the way we are treating each other; especially my black sistahs. It really iggs me to see another woman bashin', name callin, and downin' another like she has been through all hell and back with her.
Impossible though. You have NO IDEA what that person may have just went through or is possibly going through. She could've just had her home burned down, husband beat her silly, lost everything she owned and is trying to make a way. You NEVER know, but would we ask before we start with the "oooo girl she dis, ooooo girl she dat, look at her ragged blah blah"? Nope we won't because we're too busy with our noses tooted up in the air acting like we're more than what God made us. Humble yourselves ladies, maybe offer some encouragement or words of strength or just an ear for her to talk to before you judge and gossip.
We as women, especially our black women, have to go through soooooo much in life. Many of us come from broken homes, battered relationships, abused family lives, uncaring parents, been rapped, molested, tattered, abandoned, left for dead, put through the ringer, teen pregnancy, the list is endless. So tell me why must we need to add on more bewilderment to one another constantly and over nothing.
LET'S START LIFTING LADIES: POSITIVE BRINGS OUT POSITIVE BUT NEGATIVITY CAN DESTROY A SOUL. BLESSINGS
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